Sunnydale Recycling

Marcelle Manhattan - not only angry, but fair, too - and fascinating

Oct 29 at 12:12am by wilkins

Ms. M. Manhattan of Sexegesis has written a post about an ex - someone who, while they were together, made a point of tormenting her about her mediocre skills as a lover. In particular, as a fellatrix.

In truth, there’s no way I can plausibly claim not to be a member of the same group as this  lout. Manhattan plausibly suggests that he’s a sociopath. Let’s look at the evidence:

• gratuitous humiliation, in which he apparently took pleasure;
• based upon a falsehood (”you don’t give good head”). It’s a falsehood because he wasn’t in a position to know anything except whether or not it was good for him. (For argument’s sake - and because we can’t refute it - we’ll assume that, when he was complaining, he was, in fact, not delighted). The only cock I’ve ever had sucked is my own; but I’ve sucked a couple of dozen, with and without assistance from others, and it’s a skill I’ve tried to get down (no pun intended).

  [I like Dan Savage a lot - but apparently he's been saying there aren't any bisexuals. The editorial staff here at Sunnydale Recycling have secret evidence that bisexuals actually exist; it's true that we're all really, really bad people, but that's another matter entirely]

My current assessment is this: there’s a lot of variation between men and cocks and how they like to be blown; giving “good” head can involve lots of things - but always some feedback - usually just via observation - from the recipient.

Women vary much, much more - in my view - much more complexity and heterogeneity in female sexual response. Sounds like Marcelle’s ex didn’t figure that out either.

And - check her out - look how incredibly sexy and smart this woman is. If he’d been nice to her - it would have been apparent sooner.

But some of these guys don’t get off on getting off. They get off on being cruel.